A lot of couples want to write their own wedding ceremony vows, which makes perfect sense. Vows reflect a deeply personal commitment. No matter how eloquent and plentiful the vow options offered by an officiant, it's not always possible to capture the true essence of a couple's love unless they themselves compose the words.
Last night a thought popped into my head and it simply won't leave, so I guess that means I'm supposed to share it!
Rather than write our own vows, why don't we write our own rules?
Now, I'm not sure if the Universe sent me that message in regard to planning weddings or planning marriages, so I'm going to cover my collective bases and apply it to both events.